Supporting a Spouse Facing Cancer

Through his private law firm, Fort Lauderdale attorney Michael Meyer has provided legal representation and counsel for almost 20 years. Outside of his work as an attorney, Michael Meyer supports charitable organizations focused on cancer research as a result of his wife’s battle with the disease.

When a spouse is diagnosed with cancer, it is an emotional and difficult experience for both partners. Experts recommend the following behaviors to maintain a strong relationship throughout the treatment and recovery process.

Communication - In order to convey their thoughts and emotions clearly, partners should use ‘’I’’ statements and avoid generalizations. Respecting each other’s views and listening without interrupting makes both partners feel heard and supported.

Decision Making - Partners should discuss any major treatment options and long-term care plans and make decisions as a team. Spouses can decide which life-altering decisions should be made as a couple and which will be made solely by the partner battling cancer.

Support - Both partners can benefit from talking to a third party. Spouses can join support groups or speak to a specially-trained counselor to help them through the process.